On the Roosh Forum’s Newbie section, a guy just beginning his last year of high school asked the forum for some advice on how to hook up at high school parties. The following is the advice that I gave him as somebody barely two months away from finishing school completely: ———————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————————— Hit the gym hard, improve your style (ie if you see a look you like, copy it). You want to feel like you’re the sexiest motherfucker alive when you look in the mirror. Daygame girls regardless of whether they’re older then you or not. Game college aged girls and pretend you go to another school, growing some facial hair might help as well. Game girls from other schools, especially girls only schools. You can do this at a mall or train station or bus stop after school. Invite girls over to your place when your parents aren’t home, smoke some weed (or steal your parents wine), chill and then go caveman. House party wise, if you’re at a party at another school you’re best off building a handful of solid leads you can follow up on rather then putting all your eggs in one basket. Once again aim for girls only school parties, the ratio will be 2 girls for each guy at the minimum. The easiest girls at house parties at your own school are the girls who have reputations for being really really slutty and the ones who don’t know anybody there except maybe one other girl they came with. The chances of being cockblocked is much lower, she’ll be glad that you’re talking to her because she doesn’t know anyone and last but not least her reputation isn’t at stake infront of all her schoolfriends.
As you can see the common thread is going for girls who don’t go to your school. After being their friend for years and years with girls at school your chances are low and if you get rejected everybody will find out. My school has 2 dudes for every girl as well (I think because it used to be an all boys school) and it’s not particular large so I’ve always had to game outside of that circle. If you have no social connections at other schools, go for girls in the year or two below you, especially when you get to your last year of high school. Also, I don’t know if they’ll have them where you live but checkout Underage Club events that run in school holidays. They’re packed full of teeny boppers who are couple years younger than us. Massive sausage fests but the dudes are ultra chode and the girls are notoriously easy.
All in all, I would say gaming in high school isn’t as awesome as older dudes crack it up to be. The pool of hot girls to game within school is a lot smaller then they realize. You can’t go out 3-4 nights a week like they do, you’re stuck with house parties every other week where the majority of the time it will be the same set of girls. There will be nights where some beta friend is having a party and the quantity and quality so low you’re stuck gaming an ugly girl for practice. Regardless of how big the party is if you strike out badly on an approach you will get ridiculed, if you even make out with like a 5 you will get ridiculed. All from dudes with absolutely zero game who will go around telling everybody at school next week.
Meanwhile logistics will always be precarious if your parents aren’t cool, a long time can pass before your place is free to bring a girl over. You’re also going to spend a lot of time mentally masturbating about the future especially when you get to the last half of the year and you and everybody else around you won’t be able to wait to finish. You will be surrounded by friendship groups that will drag you down in high school. Replace them, or at least move up to a relatively less beta group.
Find guys within your city on a local game forum or two, get the older ones to go out daygaming with you and try to get you into bars and clubs and even use their crib overnight to pull back to. Find guys your own age, game with them, introduce each other to all your female friends and add the ones you like the best (2-3 besides yourself) to a group Skype conversation where you can shoot the shit with them everyday so that game is part of your every day reality with other people. Once you finish school, move out of home together (skip this if you’re moving out of town for university) and go absolutely hardcore for a while in one of those challenges on the internet.
Move out as soon as you can with dudes your age who are also in the game. Make sure the place is in the middle of your cities nightlife. You’d want to have as many clubs and bars as possible within 1km. If it’s too expensive, use screen dividers to convert the living room into a temporary bedroom and slash your share of the rent even more.
Older dudes have told me the best age to game high school girls is the first couple years of university. I can definitely see how that’s the case. Girls tolerate much more betaness from a 19-20 year old then a dude their own age. There is so much to talk about with the topic of high school it could never fit into one post, but I think I’ve covered the basics of it. I don’t think I’ll be ready to give a full analysis till after I’ve finished so I have non-high school experiences to properly compare it too.
Starting Young & Aiming High